If you’re wondering how to get your kids ready for family photos, here’s the truth: it’s less about preparing them and more about preparing yourself.

Change Your Mindset

Family photos don’t have to be stressful. In fact, if you approach them as a fun time to connect with your kids, that energy will shine through in the pictures. The key is to relax. If you’re stressed, your children will pick up on it, and it’ll show. Instead, think of the session as a chance to talk, laugh, and play with your kids. Your genuine connection will naturally create the best moments for the camera to capture.

NO CHEESE Allowed

We’ve all done it—asked our kids to “say cheese” in hopes of getting that perfect smile. But let’s be real. What happens? They give you a stiff, unnatural grin that doesn’t resemble their true selves. That’s not the memory you want to capture.

I believe in letting your kids be themselves. No forced smiles, no “cheese.” When your child is laughing because they’re having fun with you, that’s when the real magic happens. I direct parents more than children because when you’re interacting with your little ones, they’re more likely to open up and give us those genuine, heartwarming moments.

Embrace the Chaos

Parents often worry about getting the “perfect” shot, but here’s a secret: perfection is overrated. It’s the messy faces, the wild hair, the giggles, and the silly moments that you’ll cherish years down the road. Kids are unpredictable, and that’s exactly what makes these moments so special.

Let go of the idea that everything needs to look pristine. If your child is being themselves, whether that means being goofy, shy, or a little wild, those are the memories worth capturing.

Tips for a Successful Session

• Keep it relaxed. Treat the session like a fun family outing rather than a chore.
• Trust the process. The less you worry about getting the perfect picture, the more likely you are to get a moment that feels authentic.
• Laugh, talk, and play. Let your kids be kids. I’ll capture them in their element, and you’ll have memories that truly reflect their personalities.

Family photos should be a reflection of who you are in this season of life, with all its imperfections and beauty. Let’s capture those real moments together!